Thursday, February 11, 2010

Preserving Ourselves Against The Slow Motion Suicide

Unless we want to lose our children to the culture of death, we better work hard to pass our faith and our values to them, suggests Matthew Archbold in his National Catholic Register article:
While there is much data to corroborate the assumption that children will often mirror their parent’s political and religious affiliations I worry that many of us continue handing our children over to be educated by the secularist progressives that dominate public schools and most colleges and universities.

I bring this up because a woman with five children said to me just yesterday that her oldest son just came out as agnostic. Now, mind you, this is a good Catholic woman who I see at Church all the time. I asked her where her son goes to college and she told me an Ivy League university. She said she wished she’d pushed him towards a Catholic university.

Now, this young man may very well return to the faith after a brief flirtation with his professor’s favorite philosopher but he may not. But the thing that got me was this woman said she figured she had to send him to the best school he got into to ensure his future. Best? It seems to me that “best” needs to be defined by matching it with a goal. And if the goal is to make a lot of money in the future I’m sure the young man’s college choice is a good one. But is that the goal? Should our view of your “future” be so limited to our time here?

It seems to me that the counter-cultural act of having children must be the first of a lifetime of counter-cultural acts that includes passing on the faith to our children in a way that the faith isn’t something they do on Sundays but it informs every decision they make - even their political ones and yes, even their college choice.
Yes, homeschooling (or paying out of pocket for a trusted religious school) requires making efforts and sacrifices. But what's more important - your money or your children? Your free time or your children? If we don't want to see our children being consumed by the culture of death - we better set our priorities straight.

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